“Blessed are they who mourn, for they shall be comforted.” (Matthew 5:4)
We mourn because we love. We share this time with Nick’s family. We have known him for many years through working together to fulfill the mission of Orthodox Christian Laity. We know of his contributions as a manager and leader in his professional life. He also used his extraordinary critical thinking and analytical skills to help bring about renewal in the life of the church. He made a difference in work and community because of his vision, compassion, and integrity.
Nick was a devoted family man, husband, father, son, brother, grandfather, uncle, and friend to many. You all know Nicholas more intimately as a leader of your family and carry in your hearts rich personal memories. They will help you in this time of reflection, prayer, and mourning.
What I celebrate and remember of the life of Nicholas is that he never forgot his roots, where he came from. He was truly the first-generation son of his immigrant parents. He internalized the ethos of Greek American life. He knew life is not easy, but it is holy. This ethos guided his success and compassion. What illustrates this most for me is the empathy he had for his brother who looked after his parents. He truly respected his brother. He adored his mother.
But during 25 years of conversation and interactions with Nick, I will never forget his skills as a caregiver to his beloved Dorothy. About 6 years ago, Dorothy needed more care. Nick decided that he should be the family cook. Dorothy’s culinary palate favored the Mediterranean diet. She would crave pork with celery – avgolemono. So, Nick decided to take up cooking. Cooking became a new adventure and interest for Nick. This past December on the feast of St Nicholas when I called him, he told me: “I do not know why it took me so many years to become a cook. It is so much like chemistry. I enjoy it so.”
He enjoyed it so because it filled his day and used his skills; but more importantly, Dorothy enjoyed his meals.
Others will remember Nick in different ways. Our memories are our tributes and celebration of a life well-lived. May His memory be eternal, and may all of us live long lives to remember him.
Dr. Nicholas Pappas – July 6, 2021
Dr. Nicholas Pappas passed away on Tuesday, July 6, 2021, at the age of 90. He is survived by his wife Dorothy, his four children Thalia, Christopher (Susan), Gregory, and Nikki (James), nine grandchildren Lauren (Tommy), Christine (Lukas), Joseph, Michael (Eleni), Nicholas, Dean, James, Eva, and Rachel, and a great-granddaughter Naya. He is remembered as an accomplished business leader, a dedicated contributor to the Greek Orthodox Church, a pioneering champion of workplace diversity and environmental causes, and most importantly as a beloved husband, father, grandfather and great grandfather.
Dr. Pappas was born in New Jersey in 1930 and his family moved to Bridgeport, CT in 1937. He and his brother William were raised by Greek immigrant parents with a very strong work ethic and sense of humanity. He married his childhood sweetheart, Dorothy Demont, in 1953 and they remained best friends and devoted partners for over 68 years.
Dr. Pappas worked his way through college by selling ice cream with his brother on an ice cream truck, earning a B.S. in Chemistry from Yale University in 1952 and a Ph.D. in Organic Chemistry from Brown University in 1956. He began his industrial career at the DuPont Company in 1956 as a Research Chemist at the Experimental Station Laboratory in Wilmington, Delaware. After a series of management positions in R&D, Industrial Sales, Market Development, and Corporate Plans, Dr. Pappas was named Vice President and General Manager of the DuPont Fabrics and Finishes Department in 1978. He transferred to Polymer Products Department as Vice President in 1983, leading a period of expansive growth for this business. He was a well-recognized leader in the Polymer Industry during this time. He served as Chairman of the Executive Board of the Council for Solid Waste Solutions in 1988-9 and was instrumental in DuPont Polymer Products taking a leadership role in plastics recycling and environmental protection. In 1988, Dr. Pappas was promoted to Executive Vice President of Corporate Plans and was appointed to the five-member DuPont Executive Committee, where he served until his retirement in December 1990. His career success was characterized by a deep fundamental understanding of science, a great sense for financial principles, and a natural intuition for human nature and people development, making him a highly respected Leader.
As a great champion of humanitarian causes, Dr. Pappas served as chairman of the United Way of Delaware Campaign and Board of Directors 1985-86. He served on the Board of Directors for the National Conference of Christians and Jews, the Professional Responsibility of the Supreme Court of the State of Delaware, and the Child Care Connection. He was on the Board of Trustees of the Medical Center of Delaware, the Delaware Symphony, the Centerville School and the Delaware Art Museum. He also was committed to advancing the cause for workplace diversity as the Chairman of the DuPont Affirmative Action Committee and a keynote speaker at the National IRS Diversity Conference in 1990.
After his retirement from DuPont, Dr. Pappas was appointed President and COO of Rollins Environmental Services from 1991-96. He also served on numerous Boards of Directors related to industrial materials, including ChemFab Corporation, Witco Corporation, Nova Chemicals and EnviroKare LRM Industries.
Dr. Pappas was a dedicated member of the Greek Orthodox Church and served on Parish Council Boards for Church Communities in Wilmington, DE; Flint, MI; Wildwood, NJ; and Media, PA, and was a member of the Board of Orthodox Christian Laity. In 1993, Dr. Pappas became a member of the “Leadership 100” Endowment Fund for the Greek Orthodox Archdiocese of America.
In his retirement years, Dr. Pappas remained active providing guidance to companies that he had served on Boards and mentored his children and grandchildren with their career paths and family businesses. Together with Dorothy, they took great care to nurture life-long relationships within the extended family through regularly hosting family and friends at their beach house in Avalon, NJ. They also held memorable family holiday gatherings at their home in Wilmington, DE and in Aruba. He loved taking his children and grandchildren to the casino and having card games with them.
His daily prayers included asking God for Faith, Love, Humility, Hope, Charity, Kindness, Strength, Courage, and Wisdom, which guided the principles by which he lived and what he bestowed onto others. His guidance and influence will live on in the hearts and souls of the many people he deeply influenced throughout his life. May His Memory be Eternal.
The family will receive friends on Thursday, August 5th from 10 to 11 AM, followed by a funeral service, at St. George Greek Orthodox Church on 30 E Forge Road in Media, PA. The burial service will take place at Silverbrook Cemetery. The family will hold a reception following the burial at a location to be announced.
Memorial contributions may be made in Dr. Pappas’ memory to the United Way of Delaware or St. George Greek Orthodox Church in Media, PA.
For online condolences, please visit www.chandlerfuneralhome.com.